It was written from another’s perspective. A recollection of a conversation turned first person. Expensive, anti-climactic words ringing in my ears with an unrelenting need to, once again, find voice. In reverse, they became a bit of guilt unfurled to reveal how my selfish needs superseded best interest. Recall that I held on too long, to that room, to that moment.
“Just say it, say it already”
“I don’t.”
As painful as it may have been to hear it rephrased in that manner, I never meant to be cruel. And now, when the melody of the moment presents itself, I am reminded to never again make that mistake. Although ironically, it was only after repeated cost that it became my lesson. I hope it has become yours, as well.
p.s. volumes like breadcrumbs lead back.
Friday, September 12, 2008
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«Oldest ‹Older 4801 – 5000 of 5657 Newer› Newest»People who don't at least try to defend themselves are victims. K refuses to be a victim. I admire that.
awful and terrible--because I don't kowtow to people who harass me, people I know I can't change--then I'm evil. ^_^ And awful and terrible. :D
and thats what makes kapunua, kapunua ( which i wouldn't change)
FASC, we do get it! I have all the episodes on tape. That show was brilliant!
"Oh that does suit Madame!" :D
haha i can't believe you get that show! that is so very very english!! excellent!
i am listening to your dad sing now K! great voice! how old was he when he sang this? very impressive!
I always think that if I ever had enough money, I would start a charity that would send people to self defense classes, and I would call it, "Walk Without Fear."
sounds great! i know i wouldn't stand a chance! i can scream and kick but i know i wouldn't stand a chance against a guy!
Guys, thank you. ^_^ You are being so kind. :D
FASC, my Da is a brilliant singer and songwriter. He was also a professional boxer and regional champion, and eventually a police officer. :D
Oh gosh, when he recorded that, let's see. It was around '81 I think, and my Da is 76? I'm not very mathy. O_o
While I stand by my earlier comment, I can understand and respect your decision to not give your respect to those who continually disrespect you. Speaking from personal experience, I am painfully aware there are times when someone will go too far and cross the line.
Exploiting the death of your dog to try and kick you when you were down was cowardly and unforgivable. A person capable of such cruelty, whose intention was to deliberately inflict pain while you were no doubt still grieving, is not deserving of respect. I can only imagine how that must have made you feel.
Gosh, I should read the whole thing before getting excited and replying. FASC, if I could do self defense, you surely could. I'm so debilitated it isn't even true. The great thing about Kung Fu is that it isn't physique, it's physics. With a little bit of forethought and the knowledge of how weight shifts work, you could throw someone three times your size with minimal effort. And your body is covered in weapons once you know how to use them. Fists, fingers, knees; all of these incredible things you can swing around to keep others from hurting you. It's amazing.
late 40's then! cool K!
thanks for sharing.
4:12, thank you so much for this understanding. I know I sound like a big emo sissy, but thoughts of my dog still make me cry. I was thinking about her yesterday when I went to pick up my other two dogs, and it's just not the same. Anyway, thank you for your kindness.
In fact, in general, thank you for your kindness.
Damn no speakers on the computer. I will listen when I get home K.
Only one more thing to say and then back to my 450 comics. Man, I'm having fun going through the box...
No, it's not your job to make people like you. If it really doesn't matter to you one way or the other than that's fine. But if you want to understand why..if you realize that there may be a reason that could change the situation... then it kinda is your job. Maybe the reason goes much deeper than just not liking you - period. Maybe there is a whole lot of things that do into it. And maybe someone who was once an enemy could become a great friend. If only 'understanding' came into play.
Gosh, I should read the whole thing before getting excited and replying.
haha well that is such a ME thing to do!! always excitable!
re the self defense though, it's something i have thought of. i just know i'm fucked (possibly literally) if some guy attacks me. not that i live in a shitty area, but there are shitty people anywhere!
hey elena!!
i will be in touich i promise!
take care and enjoy the comics!
touich = touch!
i saw that i was publishing but it was just too damn late!!!!
Your Dad really wrote that song?
fake ass Elvis
Let me know when you do listen, Elena. :) He's pretty fly.
But if you want to understand why..if you realize that there may be a reason that could change the situation... then it kinda is your job. Maybe the reason goes much deeper than just not liking you - period. Maybe there is a whole lot of things that do into it.
And I'll be perfectly honest: It's just not for me to dig deeper into those people. Maybe it sounds mean to say it, but I'm not too interested in what motivates them. I didn't really come here to make friends. I'm so glad of the ones I did make, but I really, honestly and truly don't require those people to like me. I don't really need to understand their hatred of me or their need to try to ruin something nice. It's not Mayo's job, it's not mine. It's their job to figure it out. I just don't feel the need to understand their motives or to change them. I doubt if I could anyway. It's better to just not deal with them.
FASC said:
i just know i'm fucked (possibly literally) if some guy attacks me.
Oh man, I wish you didn't feel that way! There are so many ways to fight, and to not be afraid. I wish everyone could do it. :)
elena,
your sentiments are admirable, but not always practical. as someone who has spent years volunteering in youth programs trying to help these kids who bully one another, i can tell you that often the problems are deep-seated and long lasting. it usually takes so much more than a single person reaching out to help those kids, most of whom are dealing with issues that we can only imagine.
Elvis recorded the song, but my Dad actually wrote it. He was recording in the same studio as Presley for a while and my Dad used to be really careless. He left his music lying around and moved on. Presley's people picked it up, saw no credits on it, and ran with it.
But if that hadn't happened, who knows that I would even be sitting here today. O_O
Oh man, I wish you didn't feel that way! There are so many ways to fight, and to not be afraid. I wish everyone could do it. :)
it's something i have thought about for years.
just another thing i never got round to doing. maybe i should make a point of doing something like that with my kids.
K i am a very gullible person! are you joking??
FASC, that's a cool idea. I know a lot of families who all train where I train. The kids go first and then the adults go in. Most of the time, the kids do better. O_o
And some of the time Sifu just watches me and I can see him facepalming because I can be a huge spazz sometimes. But then I'll get it right, or do something perfectly, and the feeling is great.
About "Trouble?" Nope, that is a true story. That's kinda why I've always sorta disliked Elvis. He stoleded my Dad's song. >_< But things worked out anyway. :)
First anon 4:05,
I believe that another way someone can refuse to become a "victim" is to completely ignore what one vindictive anon may say about them.
Many cruel anons thrive on a "victim's" response to their low attacks, or as I call it, egging them on.
But things worked out anyway. :)
i guess what will be will be and all that shit!
hello BC!
anon at 4:25
I realize what you are saying is true. But every journey begins with a single step. If I can be the start of something that will begin to help someone then that's what I want to do.
Troofax, FASC. ^_^
Hey BC
How's it going?
I believe that another way someone can refuse to become a "victim" is to completely ignore what one vindictive anon may say about them.
I wasn't referring to defending oneself on a blog, BC, but in real life.
hey guys!
gotta go and be somewhere else.
lovely actually spending time with some folk on here. it's been a while.
take care everyone.
mayo and SS you too!
love to you all!
Love to you too, FASC! Good talking with you as always. It's nice when you can sit and chat for a while. :D
I'm going to go make some yummy dinner. I have a new recipe in mind and I want to try it out tonight. Then I'm gonna dye my hair and probably come back on here 'cause I'm bored. :D
Talk to you later, FASC
I've gotta get back to reading comics. I mean sorting the comics. yeah, that's what I mean. LOL
Hi and bye fasc, elena.
See you guys later.
Ok 4:05. Sorry
Hi Errbody! *waves*
I see you lurking, DeWees my main squeeze! *waves*
You're so crazy! You're so crazy! You're so crazy! Enough in a way that I'll probably say you destroyed me!!!
Bert,fuck my ass, NOW! fuck my ass,NOW!
Choke me, choke me, choke...
Wanna know the truth about Mikey and Alicia?
"Some things won't go away"
And, She shared the love
Whoa Bert settle down.
The general consensus was this
Wanna know the truth
rumours are not the truth
I've had practically the same things happen to me growing up.
Alot of people have had similar experiences. When I tried to talk to K, she's always been nasty and I can understand where it comes from especially here to a point. I have tried too many times. I gave up trying.I know all too well what it is like to go into defense mode, sometimes too quickly.
She has spoken to me here and there as an anon. Which is surprising because I am the same person. I don't say anything now, mean or nice. I don't like when people get on her case like they do. They get disgusting.
I can't control what others do. Maybe they were burned by her in some way, maybe what they say is true. I don't know what to believe. I have never wished her or anyone else any harm.
Elena, (St. Elena) I wish my experiences turned out like yours, with the girl who bothered you.
Unfortunately, it doesn't always work out for the better.
When I was in high school, I stopped people from bullying other people. (not proud of this part but I learned to defend myself to fight and do what I had to, to survive. to kick anyones ass that tried to bust it) haha, that sounds funny. I understand why you say the things you do and how I see myself smiling and agreeing with things you have said. Advice you may have given. You are certainly not stupid that's for sure. You try to be fair and kind as whenever possible.
Whatever, enough of my rant. Have a good evening blog believers.
Also Alicia is a big fucking bitch who uses fans
She was only confirming the "rumor".
Also Alicia is a big fucking bitch
what is she doing now? confirming alicia is a bitch?
Oh well, if you're too lazy to click....
Hi Mel, BI, ALie, whoever you are today.
Lazy ass Miss E
Ah there can be another theory, Miss E was Mel anon, Alie BI this whole time.
Hi Mel, BI, ALie, whoever you are today
don't forget steffanie
or was that her .. TWIN?
LOL stupid ass.
I'm so glad I'm not involved with anyone in a band.
Too much pretentious nonsense.
Whatever happened to Tink?
Hopefully in a padded room.
Hi, LucyBean! How are ya?
It's definitely Autumn. I'm dying my hair back to black. ^_^
waiting for gerard to save her...
ZOID WAS WRITTEN FOR ME!!1!
6:06,
Who knows? To be honest, I think no one here cared.
Hi lucy.
BC you came back to visit!
Mel, BI, and Alie are WMHB
Worlds Most Hated Bloggers
and the sharpied messages at pr were for her to....did she think the marks of love were for her?
Speaking of people thinking sharpie messages were for her.
HI BC!
the marks of love were for Skanksey Ballato.
Whoa. same old, same old i guess
Autumn is here and i dont like, dont want it yet. Frost and cold in the morning when you have to go to work. It sucks. it does
Autumn for the win, anon.
Watch the oil prices soar as soon as it gets cold. bam! they are there to rip you off. watch the gas prices this winter. pigs! every last one of them
and when you get up it's cold and you have to warm up the house and then go back outside in the cold to warm up your car
As of now I'm down straight up
And I can turn to the box for some peace
Or a box for a piece or a box for a smoke
But they're all going to choke me
As of now I'm down straight up
And I can turn to the box for some peace
Or a box for a piece or a box for a smoke
But they're all going to choke me
You're
so crazy,
You'resocrazy,
You're
so crazy,
Enough in a way that I'll probably say you destroyed me
It's like a fucking drug deal
I'm sitting here waiting
I'm calling you back
and you won't call me back
and it's fucking fucked up,
but at the same time it
just made me want you even worse.
For a while I was cleaner than now
Then I started to destroy myself
With things that I love now the things that I hate
'til it finally broke me
You're
so crazy,
You'resocrazy,
You're
so crazy,
Enough in a way that I'll probably say you destroyed me
Bert!
fuck my ass,
NOW!
fuck my ass,
NOW!
Choke me
choke me
choke me
choke me
As of now I'm down straight up
And I can turn to the box for some peace
Or a box for a piece or a box for a smoke
But they're all going to choke me
You're
so crazy,
You'resocrazy,
You're
so crazy,
Enough in a way that I'll probably say you destroyed me
Amy, where are you hiding my lilly white lovely? hmm??
what's with the Bert lyrics?
Again.
Do you all enjoy making a mockery of someone else's blog?
Hope you are happy. Wait no, most cant be and misery loves company donchya know
Who's?
Mayo we need a new post bitch.
where?
when?
Clay Aiken just announced that he is gay and his baby looks just like him.
you called Mayo a bitch?
naughty ass. bitch slaps anon who callin Mayo a bitch take that
why?
do you all pms at once or what? lol
Mayo you need to ignore the impatient bitches.
Clay Aiken just announced that he is gay
like everyone didnt already know
Geee who is next to come out??
Mayo probably bitch slaps his dong every night.
perez hilton LOL!
Geee who is next to come out??
his poor dong
Gee..i dont know...maybe he is WAYting for his grand entrance!!
LOL yes.
maybe he will come out of the closet dressed as liza...jazz hands everyone!!
About Bob being at HOB in Chicago.
"he ran onstage during reggie to put some water up and James dedicated a song to him! and then we saw him drive away."
For those saying he wasn't at the show because of his writsts.
Yes, Gerard is still the only one that didn't go.
About Bob being at HOB in Chicago.
"he ran onstage during reggie to put some water up and James dedicated a song to him! and then we saw him drive away."
For those saying he wasn't at the show because of his writsts.
Yes, Gerard is still the only one that didn't go
Yes, Gerard is still the only one that didn't go.
September 23, 2008 6:44 PM
That is because he is still hiding in the closet!
he is to busy supporting his crotch showing wife and his new best friends. BFF!
6:20,
not everyone likes autumn, that's okay, but there is beauty that comes with the season, such as halloween, the changing of the leave colors, the fact that the mosquitos will be gone(A blessing, if I do say so myself) etc.
6:13,
yes I am here, but I'm also lurking at Itunes. Hello there.
Hello first anon 6:16
*shakes head*
Does anyone else think that Clay Aiken looks like a grown up version of Chucky?
LOL BC, LOL. You poor thing.
Im with you bc, i get a little excited around halloween, and i agree about the blood sucker, they have been bad this year!
Does anyone else think that Clay Aiken looks like a grown up version of Chucky?
Yes scary isn't it!
great! cant get gas in south U.S.
blame a hurricane. blame this blame that. what a crock. i am pissed off at the "real world" issues. homes being forclosed on at staggering numbers. banks going under having the gov't bail them out? what happens when a regular person over extends themselves with debt? they try and make you feel like shit. its all okay when big companies do it. eh!
none of this matters. a blog? yelling at each other. fucking each other over to see who looks better? for who? for what? who cares?
aint gonna be long for this world little eva
out
They have TS. I just hate the little bastards. It's good to see you. How are you?
I LOVE HALLOWEEN! yes, i shouted cause i do, like alot! dont like the cold weather but I love the fall :)
what happens when a regular person over extends themselves with debt?
thats me a regular person living paycheck to paycheck...
You scare me, anon.
I'm good bc, long time no see. Hows life treating you?
His eyebrows creep me out TS, and especially the red hair.
great! cant get gas in south U.S.
blame a hurricane. blame this blame that. what a crock. i am pissed off at the "real world" issues. homes being forclosed on at staggering numbers. banks going under having the gov't bail them out? what happens when a regular person over extends themselves with debt? they try and make you feel like shit. its all okay when big companies do it. eh!
none of this matters. a blog? yelling at each other. fucking each other over to see who looks better? for who? for what? who cares?
aint gonna be long for this world little eva
out
i would say you are not in a good mood. Cheer up it
is not that bad!
6:58,
Yes!
TS, that's good. I'm good, just a bit of a headache though.
I guess he wouldn't have to dress up for halloween! LOL!
Headaches suck! Take an asprin and get rid of that mother!
ts what happens if you didnt have that paycheck anymore and dont live with mommy and daddy
thats whats scary fo real
ts what happens if you didnt have that paycheck anymore and dont live with mommy and daddy
Shit im 42 yrs old, i havent lived with my mommy in years! And your right it is scary!!
i was making dinner, ate and cleaned up the dishes while listening to the news. big mistake.
try and sit down and see whats going on here and its craziness. it doesnt change. now thats fucking scary shit right there
everything is going up except my paycheck!
6:56, those would make good lyrics.
I try and not to watch the news..it is depressing, all they show is the bad
I am off to do laundry, go to sleep, get up go to work (yeah, some of us work!) do the same thing all over again. such is life huh?
take care of yourselves blog believers
Hullo :)
finally, bye crazy anon!
I am off to do laundry, go to sleep, get up go to work (yeah, some of us work!) do the same thing all over again. such is life huh?
take care of yourselves blog believers
September 23, 2008 7:11 PM
Lifes a bitch and so is work. Sleep well!
no it wouldn't. you make something up. I am tired. no writing for me and I would never give that gift here again
cheer up people! Life is not all bad!
hello rw, how are you?
You did.
no it wouldn't. you make something up. I am tired. no writing for me and I would never give that gift here again
September 23, 2008 7:13 PM
That's a shame, we need more stories and good times here
you are the scary one anon @ 7:12
the one who is a regular and has to throw little insults about. little jabs which dont hurt btw.
trying to start more trouble, THAT is whats scary YOU. Its sad at the same time but hey, not my problem.
baa bye
Hi, TS :)
I'm tired but otherwise fine.
How are you doing? I haven't bumped into you much at this time!
You are very paranoid, Mel/anon.
well im outta here, i think alot of feelings have been hurt and thats a shame.I hope everyone has a goodnight and maybe tomorrow will be better.
Anonymous said...
finally, bye crazy anon!
September 23, 2008 7:12 PM
everybody is crazy but you huh? never ceases to make my head ache
Anon 7:20 by you writing that shows your true colors t
j
wont show as a regular. must be scared
baaaa bye
i'm good RW, i finally got my son off the computer, as he is at the skate park right now!
Excellent, TS! I'll bet he's enjoying himself!
WTF is going on LOL!
He is , they are not allowed to skate on the sidewalks so they finally built a little skate park for the kids.
night crews a comin they are all scared now. whoop
It kind of scares me, so i drop him off and drive away without looking! LOL!
whayt?
gotta run, bye rw and anons
Have a good night, TS :)
Sorry I left you hanging TS. I was chasing after my rabbit. Take care!
Hi RW *big squeeze* how was your day?
Hullo, BC! :)
*squeeze!*
My day was quite good, thanks. How about yours?
I'm good, but pooped RW. I boxed for a bit, then went to go after my rabbit, she was chewing the cable cords and such. She's outside right not though.
I'm exhausted, and I have a slight headache. I'll be resting for a bit
Sounds a bit like my day, BC, apart from the rabbit.
I'm also quite tired and slightly headachy. A shower & a pill should take care of that though.
I am off to shower, BC. Hope to catch you later :)
Hi SS! *waves*
I know this is probably going to make you facepalm but I wanted to let you know that I followed your advice and I'm so happy I did ;)
I know I'm a little late and believe me I did some facepalming of my own. You wouldn't believe the lulz you brought, just ask Pash about Puff the Magic Dragon! The rain was falling from our eyes!
Anyway, thank you. You really are the Master tipper of hats, aren't you?
weird thing you all dont get us that anons take over for one another to sound like someone else
the anons, the regulars do it
for expample one could be on the phone with another or on an instant messenger program. if one has to leave the other picks up as or for them.
a few regulars and anons do it to pretend they are other anons or elude they are regualrs to stir shit. they think no one is wise to it.
reading back and what strikes me as scary is no one says it
you should leave each other alone and you wouldn't have to deal with their craziness or ignore them which would work
Enjoy your shower RW.i I hope your headache eases :)
Damn, I need to take one too. I'll be back later.
sheesh! off to shower
Anyone care for AIM? :) I has some pics to share. ^_^
Are they of you? 'Cause you is pretty:)
Sorry I missed you BC and RW! *waves anyway*
AIM hates me, as does my 'a' key.
ALicia looked great at the NJ concert with Leathermouth and Mikey
Why are people saying she is terrible. She seemed nice enough
ummm cause some people are jeluzz
mayo, ss, where you be at?
Get your arse on AIM now!
You may need to bring a raincoat the rain is falling so hard from our eyes!
Thank you, 8:01! That is quite kind. :D They are of our trip, and we decided that we would all vote some pics in or out before we posted those bastards. :)
LucyBean, does that mean you can't get on? O_o
Okay then! :D
UNITED NATIONS - Iran's president addressed the U.N. General Assembly Tuesday declaring that "the American empire" is nearing collapse and should end its military involvement in other countries.
damn, even Iran knows who bad it is.
Thank you, 8:01! That is quite kind. :D They are of our trip, and we decided that we would all vote some pics in or out before we posted those bastards. :)
we want the scandalous pics!! LOL!
The ones involving mouse ears and lollies!!
hello
♥♥
hello anonomouse :)
Hullo?
You still stink. Did you jump in the shower for a minute? ;)
ALicia looked great at the NJ concert with Leathermouth and Mikey
Oooo! Did they go to the show? That's nice :)
Iz you talking to me, 8:26pm??
Hi again everyone. Hi RW *big squeeze*
yea she was
They looked like shit.
are you saying someone is dirty?
yea they went upstairs after a while
I'll have you know I smell all fresh and sweet-like, just like a flower!
A flower, I tell you!
Hi again, BC :)
*squeeze*
Bert wants to do me.
not a nice thing to say. you weren't even there!
Nice first comment!
I somehow doubt that.
They looked great. Mikey looked tired
Who are you talking about?
Bert wants world peace.
Oh! Mikey and Alicia.
Whatever they looked like, they turned up to support their friend. That counts for a lot in my book.
Mikey looked like the cokehead that he is.
what makes u think that?
Mikey is Alicia's bitch.
there ya go rw
Bert wants Gerard's bat and balls.
Anon at 8:34 you are an ass
8:34 you are cruel
I need you like water
Like breath, like rain
I need you like mercy
From heaven's gate
anybody jealuz much
besides Bert wants anyone and everyone
youshouldvknown said alicia had been "spreading the love" around and she knows this because she's seen the list of medications he's taking.
and then salty posted a link regarding cocaine induced bi-polar disorder.
RW you are right. They were there to support a friend. That is important. Glad you pointed that out and noticed
I bet RW smells really nice ^_^
835, you're an ignorant teeny.
pash! who is jelluz of what anon
Bert is happily married and not to a lesbian.
All communication has two parts: a sender and a receiver. The sender has a message he or she intends to transmit, and s/he puts it in words, which, to her/him, best reflect what s/he is thinking. But many things can intervene to prevent the intended message from being received accurately.
If the communication is verbal, tone of voice can influence interpretation. The boss's words, "Hey, I noticed you were taking an especially long break this morning," could be interpreted as an attack if she or he said that in a disapproving tone, while the comment might be seen as a minor reminder about office rules if it was said in a friendly way. If the employee has a health problem that sometimes requires long breaks, the comment might have even been a friendly inquiry about what was happening and whether the employee needed any help. Here, tone of voice as well as situational and relationship factors would influence the interpretation of the message.
Nonverbal cues also are important. Is the sender's posture open and friendly, or closed and cold? Is her facial expression friendly or accusatory? All of these factors influence how the same words will be received.
In addition to how the message is sent, many additional factors determine how the receiver interprets the message. All new information we learn is compared with the knowledge we already have. If it confirms what we already know, we will likely receive the new information accurately, though we may pay little attention to it. If it calls into question our previous assumptions or interpretation of the situation, we may distort it in our minds so that it is made to fit our world view, or we may dismiss the information as deceptive, misguided, or simply wrong.
If the message is ambiguous, the receiver is especially likely to clarify it for him or herself in a way which corresponds with his or her expectations. For example, if two people are involved in an escalated conflict, and they each assume that the other is going to be aggressive and hostile, then any ambiguous message will be interpreted as aggressive and hostile, even if it was not intended to be that way at all. Our expectations work as blinders or filters that distort what we see so that it fits our preconceived images of the world. (Conflict theorists call these filters "frames." See the essay on Frames, Framing, and Reframing for more information.)
An analogy can be made to an experiment that tested people's interpretation of visual cues. When people were given eyeglasses that turned the world upside-down, they had to suffer through with upside-down images for a week or two. After that, their brains learned to reverse the images, so they were seeing things right-side up again. The same thing happens when we hear something we "know" is wrong. Our brains "fix" it so that it appears as we expect it to.
Cultural differences increase the likelihood of misunderstanding as well. If people speak different languages, the danger of bad translation is obvious. But even if people speak the same language, they may communicate in different ways.
Common differences are between high-context and low-context communication. Low-context communication stands on its own; it does not require context or interpretation to give it meaning. High-context communication is more ambiguous. It requires background knowledge and understanding (context), in addition to the words themselves, for communication. While everyone uses both kinds of communication, Western cultures tend to use low-context communication more often, while Eastern and Latin American and African cultures tend to use high-context communication. If such differences are not understood and adjusted for, misunderstanding is almost inevitable.[1]
Culture also affects communication by influencing the recipients' assumptions. As described above, our minds try to twist incoming information to make it fit in our worldview. Since different cultures have very different worldviews, cross-cultural communication is especially likely to change meaning between sender and receiver, as the sender may have a very different worldview from the receiver.
Given our tendency to hear what we expect to hear, it is very easy for people in conflict to misunderstand each other. Communication is already likely to be strained, and people will often want to hide the truth to some extent. Thus the potential for misperception and misunderstanding is high, which can make conflict management or resolution more difficult.
*opens the front door and wiggles in around all her bags*
Wow. When's the last time anyone vacuummed this place?
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